tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60883366746852131162024-03-13T13:57:26.526-07:00Just Me...Monica MarieMonica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.comBlogger45125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-19131348932665870512014-10-13T17:21:00.001-07:002014-10-13T17:21:38.400-07:00Boundaries <br />
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I'm sitting here in a small room in Louisville. I am alone so I am forced to face myself. I have been thinking and praying and reading and writing. It has only been a week, but I have already begun to process through so many feelings and emotions that I could once easily ignore with all of the distractions at home. <br />
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Tonight I am studying<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0310247454?ie=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393185&creativeASIN=0310247454&linkCode=shr&tag=justmmonic-20&linkId=EBJCM62FLEENUHPZ&qid=1413245473&sr=8-1&keywords=Boundaries"> boundaries</a>. I have come to the realization that giving too much has burned me out. So I am trying to learn how to set healthy boundaries again. The timing is just right because I am in a major period of transition. My relationships are changing, responsibilities are ending, and I am challenging myself to more intentionally focus on me. Someone that has recently become near and dear to me brought to my attention that I often help others at the expense of myself, and it shows. Having someone that is willing to tell you the truth with love is priceless. </div>
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So in my reading tonight I came across a passage that was just confirmation of something that I heard in a totally unrelated podcast that I listened to while walking by the water this past summer. It read,</div>
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"Sometimes physically removing yourself from a situation will help maintain boundaries. You can replenish physically, emotionally, and spiritually after you have given to your limit, as Jesus often did." </div>
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Day by day, the longer I am here...I feel that happening slowly but surely. Later in the text I read,</div>
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<br />"The Bible urges us to separate from those who continue to hurt us and to create a safe space for ourselves. Removing yourself from the situation will also cause the one who is left behind to experience a loss of fellowship that may lead to changed behavior."</div>
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There are so many thing that I've held inside of me, that are still patiently waiting to be processed through my writing. Things that I've held on to since 2008. So now, slowly but surely, I will pour it onto the page.</div>
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Welcome to my inner world. </div>
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Most Sincerely</div>
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Just Me...Monica Marie </div>
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...Much like jazz... they have no rhythm or no rhyme<br />
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Unexpected improv patterns<br />
Impromptu peaks, plateaus and valleys<br />
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I even dig the darkest places<br />
Like cognac and live blues in sexy night spot spaces<br />
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Tucked into a cozy booth<br />
Where shadows hide your inner truth<br />
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Thoughts come in waves of depth and intensity<br />
Much like the soul stirring bass of R&B<br />
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And ideas come and go in droves<br />
Few settle in to make themselves at home<br />
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Yeah, your mind is like sweet music<br />
And I love the way you use it<br />
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Not of sound mind some might say<br />
But I love all of the sounds you play<br />
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An infinitely intelligent instrument<br />
Playing wisdom and words and wondrous whit<br />
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I see you...<br />
And I get you<br />
Unlike most mere mortals do<br />
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I hear you... mentally<br />No need to explain verbally<br />
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Beautiful... dangerously<br />Exuding and executing creative mastery<br />
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I'm so attracted to your mind that I can't get you out of mine...<br />
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Perhaps because your mind is a reflection of my own<br />
And seeing how you think let's me know I'm not alone.Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-63180981589417106252014-08-08T20:10:00.000-07:002014-08-08T20:12:06.583-07:00Runaway BrideSo...I could be married by now...If I wanted to be...but I can't help but wonder if the hold up is me...<br />
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"I would be patient, kind, faithful and true...to a man who loves music, a man who loves art, respects the spirit world, and thinks with his heart..." <br />
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I heard these India Arie lyrics today (from her song,<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxkMlS2nuU8"> I am Ready for Love</a>) and I thought, "Yeah, that's all I need to make me want to settle down..." But is that REALLY my truth?<br />
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Well, the truth is that if I TRULY wanted to be married by now...I could be... My last two official boyfriends (I had a few complicated situations in between) had rings on the lay away...but I left both of them...because I messed up. See, we always think that it's the man who is the "dog" and the woman who is the victim...but that's not always the case. Am I a <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0163187/">runaway bride</a>? I just run before the engagement or proposal actually happens...<br />
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People, men in particular, always ask me, "WHY are you still single?" or, "WHY aren't YOU married?" My answer always USED to be, "Because boys are stupid!" LOL. But after a few conversations from some of my male friends that are in relationships, my answer has recently shifted to... "Because boys are stupid, and the good ones are with stupid women!"<br />
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You see, it seems as if, when we have something good, we take it for granted. It seems to be very difficult for us all to <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Cherish-Day-feat-Jackie-G/dp/B008JTRH3C">cherish</a> a good thing when we have it. Why is that?<br />
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I was listening/watching the <span id="goog_1639186098"></span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/">On the Go with Tiffany Patton <span id="goog_1639186099"></span></a>radio show today on Urban Nation Radio. Her guest, <a href="http://www.lindadominiquegrosvenor.com/">Author Linda Dominique Grosvenor-Holland</a>, said a couple of things that resonated with me...<br />
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"There is someone that is designed to plug into your purpose in life." That's what she had to say about soul mates. Do you believe in soul mates?<br />
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She also said, "BE what you desire in a mate."<br />
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SIGH.<br />
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So now, as of the month of August, I have just been focusing on loving me as hard as I love on everyone else, especially those that I am in a relationship...or situationship with...<br />
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Everyone says that loving yourself first, and best, is the key to a healthy and lasting relationship...so I guess I should finally, TRULY give that a try huh? So, that's why I have dubbed August, my #SummerLoveTour...the month where I focus on me and everything that I love, and loving on me as hard as I love on everyone else. Believe it or not, it's easier said than done...but I'm giving it my best try. :)<br />
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So we shall see how it all pans out.<br />
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In the meantime I'm having a whole lot of fun surrounding myself with people and things that intrigue me...and it feel SO good. I am on a natural high every day.<br />
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Perhaps soon, I will find the love of my live, but in the meantime, that love is ME. :)<br />
<br />Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-11629286145267734502014-08-08T11:00:00.001-07:002014-08-08T11:00:59.153-07:00The POWER of Relationships in Business, LOVE and Life - Motivation Monda...<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/ojMMXkeSfxw?list=UUouNEsRxqVvGdSYo9586Hmw" width="480"></iframe><br />Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-88197921598918566572014-08-07T22:06:00.000-07:002014-08-07T22:06:57.289-07:00OrbitsWe DEFINITELY have a connection<br />
I want him.<br />
Perhaps a one on one<br />
Totally innocent...<br />
Just smoke and drink and listen to music...<br />
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...and talk<br />
And let that energy between me and he<br />
Swirl and twirl and dance and intertwine<br />
And just savor it and simmer in the sexual tension...<br />
...and and leave it at that...<br />
Because he has a girl and Lord knows I don't need ANOTHER complicated situation. ..<br />
But he...intrigues me...<br />
I want to kiss him...<br />
Right now I could be WITH him...<br />
I'm feeling insatiable at the moment<br />
So I'll just close my eyes and fantasize<br />
What life might be like if he were all mineMonica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-306416647917184592014-08-07T18:41:00.001-07:002014-08-07T18:41:46.768-07:00Midweek Motivation - "Poetry in Motion" Featuring Poetic<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/uN-EeTy82jU?list=UUouNEsRxqVvGdSYo9586Hmw" width="480"></iframe><br />Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-85016844921633696072014-07-07T17:05:00.001-07:002014-07-07T17:05:08.576-07:00Interview with Monica Blaire on the Motivation Mondays with Monica Marie...<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/rbjfaV-Ow7g" width="480"></iframe><br />Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-63585479746672991722014-07-07T16:59:00.001-07:002014-07-07T16:59:08.838-07:00More Fun with Monica Blaire - The Impromptu Jam Session<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/Yymx9SJEw0o" width="480"></iframe><br />Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-12953794788439990932014-01-27T09:59:00.000-08:002014-01-27T09:59:31.507-08:00The Artist Date (Momentum for Your Muse Series Part 2)<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;">
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">This, Momentum for Your Muse series is designed for writers, but it can
apply to any artist<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>or business person
because creativity is a major ingredient that is necessary in all that we do.</i></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Artist Date</b></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“How
vain is it to sit down and write when you have not stood up to live.” – Henry David
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In the book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1585421464?ie=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393177&creativeASIN=1585421464&linkCode=shr&tag=justmmonic-20&qid=1390845043&sr=8-1&keywords=the+artist+way+by+julia+camero"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Artist’s Way</i></a>, the author, Julia Cameron suggests that once a
week we take ourselves out on what she calls an Artist Date. An artist date is
an outing that serves the purpose of sparking your creativity. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This date does not have to cost money, but it should
add value to helping refresh your mind so that you can create. Below you will
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Visit your local museum. If you
live in the Detroit area, I suggest doing the tour at the Motown Museum or the
tour of the And Still We Rise exhibit at the Charles H. Wright Museum of
African American History. Did you know that if you live in Wayne, Oakland or
Macomb counties that your admission to the Detroit Institute of Arts (DIA) is
free?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you are a Bank of America
customer you can visit the Motown Museum, the Henry Ford Museum and other
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Regardless of your region, there
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Do you remember the dollar show?
Well we still have one in Warren, Michigan called <a href="http://www.cinemark.com/theatre-detail.aspx?node_id=1476&showtime_date=">Cinemark 16</a>. The price has
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As for music, I often enjoy my
favorite local jazz/funk/neo-soul fusion band for free at various venues around
that city. Live music just does something good for the soul.</div>
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No matter where you live, there is usually some beautiful
park, body of water or natural scenery that you can enjoy. My park of choice is
Belle Isle in Detroit where I walk the perimeter (5 miles around so it’s a
great workout too) and enjoy the view of the water and wildlife.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When it’s colder I like to drive along the
shore headed East on Jefferson Avenue, passing through several small cities while
enjoying the water to my right and big, beautiful homes to my left.</div>
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These are just a few suggestions
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If you haven’t done so already,
check out part 1 of this series where we talk about making mental space. Next week we will discuss how to set up your
work space and environment in a way that will motivate your muse.</div>
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workshop that I designed for the Motown Writers Network called
“Momentum for Your Muse.” My body had other plans. It completely shut
down on me and I was so sick that I could not move for over 24 hours. I
still hope to facilitate this workshop at some point, but in the mean
time I want to leave you with a series that highlights the main points
and ideas from the workshop. This workshop was designed for writers, but
it can be applied to any creative or business process. I’ll give you
one small chunk to focus on each week to keep the momentum going for
whatever project you are focused on for the New Year.</em>
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<em>“We are cups, constantly and quietly being filled. The trick is,
knowing how to tip ourselves over and let the beautiful stuff out.” –
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Our minds are often so cluttered with thoughts, ideas, tasks,
responsibilities, drama and worries that little space is left for
creativity. For most of us, the mental noise begins before we even wake
up. We begin to go over our to-do list, we mull over things that
happened the day before, we think about everything that has to be done
and how little time we have to make it all happen. Whether it is a
business plan, a workout plan, a recipe or a book, we must find a way to
clear our mental space to be able to create.</div>
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Clearing you mind may be as simple as taking a series of deep
restorative breaths. Breathe in deeply for a slow count of four through
your nose and breathe out of your mouth deeply for a slow count of four.
I recommend at least four of these deep breaths, but do as many as you
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Those deep breaths can lead to another common practice which is
meditation. This is one that I have yet to master, because I find it
extremely challenging to sit still. There are many books, blogs and
even classes on how to meditate, but the simple definition is the
practice of concentrated focus. This focus can be on your breathing, a
sound, an object or visualization. It can be used to contemplate or
reflect. While meditating, be mindful not to let the millions of
thoughts flood your brain again, that is why it is important to choose a
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Another practice similar to meditation is prayer. Ask for
forgiveness, give gratitude, as for what you want or need including the
mental clarity and inspiration to be able to create. After the prayer,
take a moment of time in still silence. We often pray and then keep it
moving instead of waiting and listening for guidance, direction and
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In the book, <em>The Artist’s Way</em>, the author, Julia Cameron
suggests that we write what she calls Morning Pages every day. These are
three pages written in a journal or notebook about any and everything
that is on our minds. These writings are not meant to be creative or
profound (though they may end up that way), they are just meant to take
all of the stuff that is in our minds and put it on the page to clear
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This week I challenge you to try one or all of these methods to make
mental space for that which you desire to create. Next week we will
explore how you can spark or ignite that creativity once the space has
been made.</div>
Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-12782336627895619472013-07-15T05:49:00.001-07:002013-07-15T05:49:57.311-07:00Don't Complain...Take Action!<div style="text-align: justify;">
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post after post on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram filled with anger, sadness, frustration and despair surrounding the Trayvon Martin case and
the Zimmerman verdict. The posts that resonated with me the most were
the ones that encouraged or challenged us to take action. So I gave it
some thought..."What immediate action could I take?" I realized that
there is certainly a need for motivation, inspiration and encouragement
during this sad time, so as a result, I have made both of my
motivational eBooks, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005TXVWQE?ie=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393177&creativeASIN=B005TXVWQE&linkCode=shr&tag=justmmonic-20&qid=1373890400&sr=8-9&keywords=Monica+Marie+Jones">"Monday Morning Motivation"</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00D3ML5WE?ie=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393177&creativeASIN=B00D3ML5WE&linkCode=shr&tag=justmmonic-20&=books&qid=1373891472&sr=1-7">"Momentum"</a> free. Please download them (by clicking on the titles), read them and share them with someone who you know that needs a lift.
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Complaining is easy and it often leads to very little if any change or
results. This week I encourage you to identify a way that you can take
action that will make a difference, no matter how large or small. </div>
Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-78997012881495550622013-06-05T08:33:00.001-07:002013-06-05T08:33:41.947-07:00My New Book! "MOMENTUM" <br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">As a result I have synthesized everything that I've learned into my NEW book, "MOMENTUM: Daily Meditations From the Minds of Millionaires". </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">You can download the book here <a class="twitter-timeline-link" href="http://t.co/KOcL0kXnRM">http://t.co/KOcL0kXnRM</a> and you can check out what I have to say about it in the video interview below that I did with The Motown Writers Network. :)</div><br />
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Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-42097553007990365782013-02-14T08:56:00.001-08:002013-02-14T08:56:39.066-08:00Day 11 of my 60 Day Fitness Challenge!<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/GPnOKCyfR1U" width="480"></iframe>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-47881680690263932392013-02-04T07:29:00.001-08:002013-02-04T07:29:37.204-08:00Day 1 of my 60 Day Fitness Challenge!<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/dpM13Pl4NQs" width="480"></iframe>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-63303358263299738632012-11-18T13:50:00.001-08:002012-11-18T13:50:12.421-08:00The Big Chop!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There is power in hair. All my life, I've wanted long hair. Perhaps I was socialized to believe that long hair would make me pretty. I remember being young and draping a towel over my head pretending like it was long flowing tresses. I started out with long thick hair as a little girl, but once I got a perm at the age of 7, everything went down hill from there. Then I got a hold of an electric curling iron and further damaged my hair. </div>
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Once I began swimming in middle school, the chlorine caused it all to fall out. In college I tried Debbie Allen's "Copa" product (which people later sued her for), which was supposed to be all natural, but my hair fell out once again...then later in college when I took on a full load of classes, three jobs, and five extra curricular activities, it broke of from stress.</div>
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After reading several books about coming out of a perm and wearing my natural hair, I finally got it right in my early twenties. My hair was long, thick, healthy and flowing down my back. Then in my early thirties, stress, or love, or trying to be cute and sleeping without wrapping my hair up caused my hair to do things that I had never experienced before. I noticed it thinning, then next thing a knew, I had a CLEAN BALD patch on the top left side of my head that I tried to hide with different styles for months, but pretty soon I had to get a full sew in weave to hide my bald spot and my bruised self-esteem.</div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvHQdT4_PlwWMQ2LVjGPMyx-E5gxZYKmFK7ck27AreO5C249BwT_rzVoaIA9oEIvCFv1ezO9ihbF6WG06U9E884pQTu669rH5gYfgNLgo7Uv5uow7klv9gBTBfQ-eCpBXJXhnEUh0kGn_d/s1600/Pics+from+iPhone+11-12-12+673.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvHQdT4_PlwWMQ2LVjGPMyx-E5gxZYKmFK7ck27AreO5C249BwT_rzVoaIA9oEIvCFv1ezO9ihbF6WG06U9E884pQTu669rH5gYfgNLgo7Uv5uow7klv9gBTBfQ-eCpBXJXhnEUh0kGn_d/s320/Pics+from+iPhone+11-12-12+673.JPG" width="239" /></a><br />Since then, the hair has grown back, but it still has never been the same. SO for my 34th birthday, I decided to do something different. I had reached a cross roads in my life and decided that it was time for some major changes. Time to let go of some things. My attachment to my hair was one of those things. SO I decided to cut it. Something that was unheard of for me in the past because I was always so obsessed with wearing it long and trying to will it to grow. </div>
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Soooooo.....I finally went through with it. The BIG Chop! And I must say, that it was quite liberating and I feel like it was symbolic of my transition from being a young woman to a grown woman. </div>
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I plan to let it grow back out, but sometimes in order for something to be healthy...and truly grow...you have to let it go.</div>
Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-65233199331300875322012-11-12T18:06:00.002-08:002012-11-12T18:06:53.749-08:00A Social 'Media' Experiment<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have unplugged from the matrix. I have deactivated all of my Twitter and Facebook accounts. Have you noticed? This blog, my LinkedIn account and my website are pretty much all that is left of my online presence. </div>
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Why you ask? I was ready to live in the real world...to be present and in the moment. I was spending more much time wrapped up in a virtual reality than I was living in the here and now. </div>
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I had to take a step back and re-evaluate where and how I was spending my energy, what my motives were and what type of fruit was being produced by the seeds that I was planting.</div>
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Most importantly...I had to get back to me...just Me...Monica Marie</div>
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So, I just got my real estate license. And I am learning that in order to keep it, there are several requirements that must be met. I must take ongoing continuing education courses. I must take yearly trainings in ethics and legal updates. The case was also somewhat similar when I got my teaching certificate and my certification to be a youth development trainer...</div>
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So it got me to thinking, what if there were certain requirements that couples must meet in order to get and keep their marriage license? With all of my licenses, including my driver's license, I had to first study and take a test. After that, if I did not meet whatever obligations were set forth, my license or certificate would expire. </div>
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-Just Me...Monica Marie </div>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-5139364398730362462012-07-27T12:06:00.000-07:002012-07-27T12:06:01.377-07:00Transitions...<br />
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It is due time for me to fill you in on the adventures that are my life. I am in a time of major change and transition. For the last several years I have branded myself as an <a href="http://www.monicamariejones.com/">author</a> and <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Inspirationista-Ink/196355217080774">motivational speaker</a>. The love and support that I received from that path has been amazing. Lately, I have been having strong feelings that it is time for a major shift in my life. Now is the time for me to put everything in its proper place and order of priority. For some things this means taking a step away or ending it all together, for other things, this means an exciting new beginning.</div>
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I have embarked upon a new path. The new priority in my life is Real Estate. This is not to say that I will never write or speak again, because I will. Writing and speaking are a very important part of any successful business...but you may find that what I write and speak about at this point may be more focused on the area that is my priority.</div>
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I entered the real estate game in elementary school. My first job was at my Grandfather's real estate company called Westchester Estates. It was called Westchester because that term is a combination of the two Parishes in Jamaica that my Grandmother and Grandfather were from...Westmoreland and Manchester. I've always had a wide variety of Real Estate books collecting dust on my shelves because in my heart of hearts I always knew that I would get back into it some day.</div>
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One year ago, I re-entered the field as an <a href="http://www.teamjpenterprises.com/">investor</a>. I began acquiring residential properties in my hometown of Detroit. I was immediately fascinated and intrigued by it all. This led me to do further research and seek more education and professional development. In a whirlwind process over the last few months I took my real estate pre-licensing class, took and passed the state exam, got my real estate license and got hired into an office as a <a href="http://www.monicajones.realestateone.com/">real estate agent</a>. In the midst of all of this my real estate investing company acquired 5 new properties, several of which were multi-units. </div>
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Each piece of this message can be broken down into it's own detailed story in separate blogs...and I just may do that at some point...but I just wanted to take a moment out of my self-imposed crazy busy life to tell you what's new with me.....Monica Marie.</div>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-71997030132111581272012-04-28T14:30:00.001-07:002012-04-28T14:30:45.673-07:00Can Men and Women be "Just Friends?"<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/zUV1Kfb6-QU?fs=1" width="480"></iframe>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-63101430274718036512012-02-14T09:53:00.000-08:002012-02-14T09:53:34.413-08:00Valentine's Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyPN3ypffNz7ajOYbn7IV8Wtb8ENQ4KjoJA6ZLbWLIzFP-or1VF0jZsmZxnPh20CGtjLpjX3OEjUUGgx8slbUu82605X30LWbl7VJ9NoUgxvfF3OdmujTquXJgYKLAxMDyfjHWLXs693E9/s1600/wounded+heart.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyPN3ypffNz7ajOYbn7IV8Wtb8ENQ4KjoJA6ZLbWLIzFP-or1VF0jZsmZxnPh20CGtjLpjX3OEjUUGgx8slbUu82605X30LWbl7VJ9NoUgxvfF3OdmujTquXJgYKLAxMDyfjHWLXs693E9/s1600/wounded+heart.jpg" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;">I love LOVE...but I must admit...that I fight it. As I look back over all of my relationships, I realize, that I'm the one that starts acting funny. I say what I want, then when I get it...it's still not enough. Perhaps the problem is that I am looking for my joy and my peace and my passion in my relationships...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Relationships are great to supplement those things, but true joy and peace and passion can really only come from self...from within. I know this...preach this...so why in the WORLD don't I practice this. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The first time I truly fell in love...I learned that love was not enough. So then I found someone who had the other end of the spectrum...the logistical side...but that's not all peaches and cream either. Does a balance exist? Or does the answer lie in me? Do I give up too soon? Could I with patience, dedication and hard work, could I make either situation end up as a success story?</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Or does Prince Charming really exist? Could I find a man that has a perfect balance of loving me to pieces...a man that I am enough for...a man in whom I evoke such undying love and admiration for me that he loses all desire for any other woman...a man who is a strong and responsible leader...who adds value to my life...teaches me...and makes me better...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Is that all a fairy tale...or is it possible?</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">There have been amazing things about all of the men that I've had serious relationships...things that other women only wish they had... so it makes me wonder if I'm unhappy...or ungrateful...or if it has anything to do with them at all...perhaps the problem and the answer lies in me.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I feel like with enough time and research...I can figure anything out...except for love. Love is the only thing that still baffles me...consistently.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Is it only me?</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I'd love to hear from someone that feels that they have it figured out. </div>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-3058643302134314662011-08-27T09:44:00.000-07:002011-08-27T09:44:24.179-07:00Spoiled in South Beach<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves/> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:DoNotPromoteQF/> <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther> <w:LidThemeAsian>X-NONE</w:LidThemeAsian> <w:LidThemeComplexScript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:SnapToGridInCell/> <w:WrapTextWithPunct/> <w:UseAsianBreakRules/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:SplitPgBreakAndParaMark/> <w:EnableOpenTypeKerning/> <w:DontFlipMirrorIndents/> <w:OverrideTableStyleHps/> </w:Compatibility> <m:mathPr> <m:mathFont m:val="Cambria Math"/> <m:brkBin m:val="before"/> <m:brkBinSub m:val="--"/> <m:smallFrac m:val="off"/> <m:dispDef/> <m:lMargin m:val="0"/> <m:rMargin m:val="0"/> <m:defJc m:val="centerGroup"/> <m:wrapIndent m:val="1440"/> <m:intLim m:val="subSup"/> <m:naryLim m:val="undOvr"/> </m:mathPr></w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" DefUnhideWhenUsed="true"
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Cooling down after a beach workout</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Looking out of my window this morning at the beautiful sunshine made me have a flashback of a very memorable experience that I had during one of my vacations this summer. It was my second day in South Beach in Miami, Florida.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I don’t know if it was the excitement of the trip or the fact that we’d gone to bed so early the night before, but I woke up before the sun did at 5am. After taking a walk to the nearby Walgreens to get bottled water and snacks for the rest of our travel buddies, my travel companion and I dropped off the goods and went to the beach to watch the sun rise. Watching the sun rise over the ocean was the most breath taking experience.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Once the sun was high in the sky we ran on the beach and did calisthenics. It was THE most exhilarating experience I’ve had in a long time. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Relaxing in my favorite bikini</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">After the workout we changed into our swim wear and went in search of breakfast by strolling Ocean Drive to find which restaurant had the best deal.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We settled on Carlyle’s and were pleased with our smoked salmon and spinach omelets.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After breakfast we went back to the beach to swim and soak up some sunshine for a few hours.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>While the sun is delightful, it can be draining so we headed back to the hotel to rest, shower, change and check in with our friends, who were JUST waking up.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They were just getting their day started, but at this point we were ready for lunch.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">We strolled down Ocean Drive again, this time dressed in light fabrics and linens turning heads and graciously accepting compliments.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was hard to make a choice about which restaurant to settle on because all of them had very tantalizing offers with waitresses posted out front passing out colorful post cards showing how their restaurant had the best deal. Just when I thought that deciding on one would be impossible I saw a waiter at the next restaurant carrying a tray of all of my favorite foods to a family of three….lobster, oysters, shrimp…My choice had been made. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I want that!” I exclaimed. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">One of the BEST meals I've ever had!</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Needless to say the platter tasted as good as it looked, the chilled bottle of Pinot Grigio was the perfect pairing and the company and conversation were the icing on the cake to make for a perfect experience, the best one I had during my stay in South Beach.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> I’ll never forget that day. </div>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-51490353206488137772011-08-18T03:23:00.000-07:002011-08-18T03:25:27.513-07:00My Summer of Music<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Before the Jill Scott Concert</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div style="text-align: justify;">The best part of the concerts that I attended this summer was not so much the music as much as the time spent before and after the events with my concert companion. We made an event of each concert, so every one of them was so much more than just a show. We created our own little mini before and after parties to supplement all of them.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The first concert was more of a pre-summer kick off in May. We went to see the group <a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.theforeignexchangemusic.com/">Foreign Exchange</a> which we didn’t really know about until my best friend made us aware of their unique style. Even though we weren’t very familiar with the group before we came to the show, we enjoyed it immensely and have been fans ever since. What made it so cool was that the concert was in somewhat of a non-traditional venue in Detroit, <a href="http://majesticdetroit.com/">The Magic Stick</a>. The downstairs is a bar/restaurant/bowling alley type deal and the upstairs is the space where they performed. It was spacious with an outdoor patio, a bar and plenty of open space to stand in front of a stage that wasn’t so far removed from the crowd and seating around the perimeter. The entire environment had that eclectic feel that I love with vintage furniture and cool artwork where the room has just as much if not more personality than the people in it. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">At the Jill Scot Concert</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div style="text-align: justify;">The band really made it entertaining by making some of the music relevant to the city, even going as far as singing their own rendition of the slightly hot mess of a song that doesn’t truly represent the spirit of Detroit, yet has been made popular on You Tube, “It’s so cold in the D”. The rest of their music was a funky and enjoyable mixture of hip hop, neo soul and R&B which gave me and my hot date the opportunity to show off our ballroom dance skills. This gave it a feel of being more than just a concert by more like a comfortable gathering of great friends.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The next concert was Jill Scott’s Summer Block Party at DTE Energy Theater which also featured Anthony Hamilton, Mint Condition and DJ Jazzy Jeff. We got off to an early start for this concert stopping off in Royal Oak for a great deal that we got on sushi by purchasing a <a href="http://www.groupon.com/r/uu2130793">Groupon</a> coupon in advance ($7 for $15 worth of food and drink. I love Groupon). </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">We ate much faster than we thought we would and ended up getting to the venue an hour early. Since we had time to kill we got drinks from the vodka bar, then we found our way into the Starlite Club which is a restaurant and bar that patrons can enjoy before and after each concert. This was a nice touch because it was much better than having to sit in the somewhat uncomfortable pavilion seating as we waited for the concert to start. The concert was amazing, but our little pre-party in the lounge was the best part. Even though we’d already had dinner we decided that we had more room to enjoy a flat bread pizza with fresh mozzarella and tomato which we savored as we popped a bottle of pinot grigio and enjoyed stimulating conversation. The juicy topics of conversation, pizza and wine coupled with the excitement and anticipation about the concert made for a very memorable experience.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The Lamb Chops at Mosaic</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div style="text-align: justify;">The final concert of the summer was a Wednesday Night Jazz Series Concert in <a href="http://cheneparkdetroit.com/%20">Chene Park</a> which featured Jonathan Butler and Maysa. These concerts are a great and affordable date for anyone that wants to do something different and romantic because the pavilion tickets are only $15 and the lawn seats are even cheaper. We preceded the concert with another Groupon at a restaurant in Greektown called Mosaic. We got $50 worth of food and drink for only $20! The atmosphere and ambiance of the restaurant was very sexy and we enjoyed tasty calamari, lamb chops and filet mignon. As always the conversation was great and we finished just in time to make it to the concert to enjoy the smooth sound of Maysa who was the opening act. When she was done singing we decided that we were tired so we slipped out of the concert early to kick of the after party at my loft. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">At the Maysa Concert</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div style="text-align: justify;">This was the best part of the night in that we enjoyed great music (coming full circle by listening to Foreign Exchange), chocolate covered pineapples prepared by <a href="http://www.yumdelish.com/">Yum Delish</a> and another bottle of Pinot. Again, the conversation was the best part of it all and the perfect end to the night and a wonderful summer of music.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">There’s just something special about the excitement of preparing for a concert. From picking out the right outfit, accessories and hairstyle to making plans for dinner before and drinks after…it is a joy that goes beyond the music.</div>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-45444274797798589342011-07-10T14:31:00.001-07:002011-07-10T14:31:41.364-07:00Brand BalanceLast night I realized that I’ve created a brand that is different than who I am. Don’t get me wrong, inspiring and helping people is a HUGE part of my purpose, my passion and my existence…but my brand is far more uptight than I am in real life. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? I mean, I believe in being careful about what you put out in the public, because you represent your brand…but isn’t being authentic more important? Those that are near, dear and very close to me know that I have a HUGE personality. Sometimes I feel suffocated by self-imposed censorship like I’ve somehow trapped that huge personality in a very small container. I think that it’s time to unleash the true me…<br />
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-Just Me…Monica MarieMonica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-64410238816748643652011-01-27T19:51:00.000-08:002011-01-27T19:51:49.669-08:00Harm0nie.com Interviews Monica Marie Jones<iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/2B0paR8zkaQ?fs=1" allowfullscreen="" width="480" frameborder="0" height="295"></iframe>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6088336674685213116.post-55082416806079639932010-12-24T16:46:00.000-08:002010-12-24T16:46:35.016-08:00Happy Holidays! A RARE and Special Gift from Me to You :)<iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/Kvmp4hw4ifU?fs=1" width="480" frameborder="0" height="295"></iframe>Monica Marie Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15746788450740184720noreply@blogger.com0